At a traditional Jewish bar mitzvah celebration, what sweet food is commonly thrown toward the celebrant?

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At a traditional Jewish bar mitzvah celebration, candy is the sweet food commonly thrown toward the celebrant.

Guests may toss soft sweets after the celebrant completes a significant part of the service, especially after the Torah reading or the Haftarah. The custom expresses wishes for a sweet and happy future. In some communities, the candies are individually wrapped or soft enough to avoid causing injury.

This is a festive custom rather than a requirement of Jewish law. Its timing and form vary widely by denomination, congregation, and family. It also differs from throwing rice at some weddings: candy at a bar or bat mitzvah is specifically associated with celebrating the young person’s achievement and new religious responsibilities.

Source: Wikipedia · fact-checked Sept. 2026

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