Traditionally, the quinceañera’s father performs the changing-of-the-shoes ceremony.
During this symbolic moment, the father replaces the celebrant’s flat or low-heeled shoes with high heels. The action represents a transition from childhood into young womanhood and is often presented before guests at the reception.
The father’s role reflects older family and gender customs, but it is not a universal rule. Contemporary celebrations may feature a mother, another parent, a guardian, or another important relative. Some families also reinterpret the ritual or leave it out entirely.
This custom is separate from the presentation of a tiara, bouquet, or religious objects. Because quinceañera traditions vary across countries and families, “traditionally” matters: the historical convention is the father, while actual celebrations may choose someone else.